a new lease of life

2007-01-20T04:06:00.000-08:00

MY LIFE NOW

2006-09-27T05:05:00.000-07:00

I took this from Agatha's blog cuz its interesting...Read on

How To Be A Better Couple 10 steps to enjoying each other better...
1. Be realistic about each other.Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.

2. Always talk things out.Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.

3. Do stuff together.Make an effort to do t hings together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!

4. Meet each other halfway.If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy... There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.

5.Show ur loveBuy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.

6. Respect each other.Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.

7. Bury the past.Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.

8. Sit on ur jealousy.All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.

9. Keep ur commitments to each other.If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.

10. Be honest.Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing <>ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? æ Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!

2006-09-15T04:57:00.000-07:00

Man i miss going to school....maybe i shouldnt have left school. Im missing out on so much of stuff right now. I miss just sitting in the canteen absorbing all the energy around me. I miss the lectures where lecturers made it fun and easy to learn. I miss my course mates and ICS friends. but i dont need to worry cause i will be seeing you guys soon ya. Dun miss me too much.....

sighs i wish i wish i wish.....but i cant make a decision right now....for people who know what im talking about please tell me what to do...

Cam whoring sessions

Me and my gals taking a break

Me and a few good frens at palawan

So you see things would have been better if not for some sex-craving bitch.....haiz i wish i had the power to turn time around....i miss loads of people and things in life.....and i definitely miss school.....

2006-09-14T23:13:00.000-07:00

I totally totally hate you for what you did...but i am not gonna blame you for not telling me cuz i was the one who was in fault but i hope you are happy now. You aint gonna be a part of my life anymore.Remember this......i once loved you but it was your cousin who showed real love to me and i respect him for that.....haiz no use talkin about these kinda things anymore. I am gonna concentrate in my life and not bother about you. Yes no matter what you will still be my friend and i will respect u for that but nothing more and nothing less.....I hope u are satisfied now.

Vivek i am so happy that after so long we were able to talk again.Love ya lots. I hope we can get to see each another soon. Dun worry the day will come and if fated we will meet. Dun miss me too much k.......

felle i miss you lots gal and im so sorry about that day cuz i was really sick and pissed with matt so i wasnt in the mood.....i think u saw my temper flaring. Moe said i was a volcano waiting to erupt.......very true...but i hope you dun take it to heart.....i love ya gal and you will always be my one and only bestie.....God bless......

genieve whats up babe.....long time no see ya...miss ya lots....we gotta make an appointment to go out for a movie or sumthing....

peeps im so sad........the reason......look at the picture above...... that stupid byatch took my surya away......I HATE HER......nah i think she looks very pretty in her wedding sari...like they say.....all brides look like goddesses on their special day.......in this case jyothika looks like a cleaned-up Chandramukhi.....kekekeke...okay tht was lame....nvm......

well i miss ben,alfie,fil,lin,kholiq,moe,nigel,jiv blah blah blah.....i can go on forvever.....but the two most important people tht i miss now are Felicia Williams and Vivek Rajendran(sorry if i spelt ur name wrongly sweets)

2006-09-05T07:17:00.000-07:00

Ouchies my heels still hurts from wearing those darn heels to shine jesus shine yesterday.....but the fact still remains that i had an awesome time with Genieve singing all those wonderful songs to praise the lord.....Despite the rain that poured for about an hour or so, it never managed to dampend down our spirits....It actually made us more active and enthusiastic......Its ashame that Felle couldnt make it if not things would have been much more fun or has Genieve would have put it "the more , the merrier"......love that gal lots.We should go out soon okays???And next year we shall bring more people to the procession...

p.s. Genieve your fren Jerome is GDH!!!!!!(god damn hot)

Guess what?????Sajee happens to be a very punctual person in making calls....I had asked him to call me exactly at 12pm yesterday and not a minute later he called....not alot of guys are that punctual in making calls...IM PROUD OF YOU DA!!!hahahahaha....anyway this guy is damn sweet....he kept me company throughout the whole of yesterday's afternoon even though he had to paint the house. Thanksss!! Too bad i couldnt come out to meet you today cause in my house we celebrate Onam so my mum expected me to be home to do the prayers and serve the food.Anyway I owe you one so tell me wen u wanna go out and I'll see if im free on that day so that we can go out yea????Oh yea before I forget, i dont have the heart to put down the phone too so dont think you are the only one.....and you sound damn adorable when u say that....thats y i cant stop smiling.....I guess you are one of those people who can really cheer me up when Im down...Miss ya !!!!

Holy crap!!!!Those bloody KamiKaze people are having the chalet on the same day of Kholiq's Chalet!!!!My worse mightmare has come true...I have to see those bloody backstabbing people again....I mean i dont mind some of them like Haresh and Shanmugam but the rest I cant stand.......Including the two faced or disfigured face(Sajee thinks so) bitch Nathini.....I really am not prepared to see any of them...the worse thing that can happen to me is that they get the chalet next to us!!!! Total Nightmare!!!!!!!!!!!!!!God help me!!!Make sure I dont go on a killing rampage on the night of a chalet.......

Felle darling im so sorry i couldnt spend longer time with you yesterday.....our bestfriend bonding time had to be cut short because of the youth worship session.....Miss ya darlings and dont woryy....very soon we shall go out for a whole day shopping,camwhoriing,girlfriend bonding,food purging and sightseeing mega session.........Miss ya lots already!!!

p.s i definitely need to take more neo prints with you.....at least about 10 of them!!!!

anyway peeps i gotta go.....oh yea before i forget, Good luck Sajee on your final theory test tonight! Hope you do well and whe n u actually get ur license u better bring me out for a ride yea.....then u cannot complain that toa payoh is too far....k???Oh ya and call me tmr at 12pm again k????? thanks da........god bless all of you out there and goodnight!!!!!

2006-09-02T23:44:00.000-07:00

I dont know why but everytime I speak to you i feel as if the feeling that I've controlled for so long is coming back. What is it in you that I see i still dont get but I do know for sure that I really do love you.....Its just that I wanna make sure before I make my move.I dont want past mistakes to repeat itself again. Hey angel i just want u to know that i do love you lots but i just think that if given more time we could get to know each another better....miss ya lots...

it pains me to see that my bestie is not enjoying her life in JC...somehow if i had gone to JC too both of our lifes would have been much much better. I dont see the happy and cheery girl that i used to see last time anymore.....I miss that in you gal but dun worry things are gonna be better next year when i enter JC too. Just dun forget that Im always here to support you and help you in your every needs ya????Love ya gal...Muacks Muacks......we need to go shopping and camwhoring soon....Im dying of de-bitchydration.....

Anyway peeps listen up...our one and only benj is returning to Singapore on the 15th of December. So all of his close friends namely Felicia,Alfred,Laxhmi(thats me),Lin-sie and cassandra are to pick him up from the airport when he arrives okay....

Alright peeps thats all the time i Have now...gotta go church for the mother mary procession ya....Love ya all....especially my S-angel...take care and god bless.......

Best Love Quotes

2006-09-02T00:42:00.000-07:00

Best Love Quotes

No Guy Is Worth Your Tears &
When You Find The One That Is
He Won't Make You Cry

If You Really Love Something Set It Free.
If It Comes Back It's Yours,
If Not It Wasn't Meant To Be

Love is never lost.
If not reciprocated,
it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.

If You Love Someone
Put Their Name In A Circle Not A Heart,
A Heart Can Break But A Circle Goes On Forever

Believe In Love At First Sight

There are 3 great things in this world.
The first thing is for you to love someone.
The second thing is for someone to love you back
and the third greatest thing is for the first and second thing to happen at the same time...

Love is like a roller coaster.
Once you have completed the ride, you want to go again.

Its hard to pretend you love someone when you don't
but its harder to pretend that you don't love someone when you really do.

They Say Love Hides Behind Every Corner,
I Must Be Walking In Circles

I wish I could be your tear drops,
for what more could anyone ask for then to be conceived

2006-09-01T11:20:00.000-07:00

My Angel

You are my angel,
who protects me from evil.
You are my angel,
who tells me what's right and wrong.
You are my angel,
who watches me day and night.
You are my angel,
who walks with me and is always be my sight.
You are my angel,
who I call my boyfriend, which is you!
I Love You S*J**!
That's why I call you MY ANGEL
and for ever you will be.

Felicia William

2006-09-01T11:02:00.000-07:00

Felicia Williams

>my bestfriend
>my guardian angel
>my confidence
>my strength
>my saviour
>my shopping clique
>my partner in crime
>my fellow libran
>my camwhore
>my study partner
>my confider

Felle sweetie i love ya lots gal and pls rmb tht even though we dun hang out as often as we used to I still treasure our friendship alot and that You will always be my one and only bestfriend...I wanna thank you for whatever you have done for me in the past......God bless Ya gal...muacks muacks

Sajee Kumar

2006-09-01T10:15:00.000-07:00

Sajee Kumar......the hot,muscular guy i got to know when i was in poly and definitely somebody i wont be able to forget....somebody who has taught me a valuable lesson in life. Dont be fooled by his looks cause he is really a nice,soft guy despite his fierce and tough looks. Even I was intimidated by his looks and thats why it took me sometime to actually be able to talk to him face to face(now you know). In the past I use to ignore his advice but now i realise that i shld have listen....but like everybody knows.....IM DAMN STUBBORN....hehehehe......i love this guy truckloads...he is always there for me when i need to talk to him.....I LUB U LOTS SAJEE!!!! Take care and god bless dada......

True Woman

2006-09-01T07:39:00.000-07:00

Hey people i just came across this beautiful poem written by a 14 year old......

A Perfect Role Model (A True Woman)

A true woman is someone that has
Strength, courage and devotion,
Beliefs, dreams and fantasies,
Pride, prestige and love.

A true woman is someone that is
Strong, fearless, and truthful,
Sweet, kind, and generous,
Honourable, beautiful,
And everything above.

A true woman is someone that gives
A shoulder to lean on,
An ear for encouragement,
And no force to push or shove.

A true woman is someone that u can trust with
Secrets, thoughts, and rumours,
Changes, improvements, and wrecks,
Feelings, moments, and hopes.

A true woman is someone who feels
Happy, delighted, and glad,
Angry, frustrated, and mad,
Depressed, lonely, and sad.

A true woman is someone that should be
Loved, cared, and devoted for,
Remembered, honoured, and respected for,
Saved, helped, and not taken granted of.

A true woman is not someone I've seen yet,
But that's not taking away my promise
Of accomplishing to grow up to be one.
Which one day I will, and show everyone
The perfect role model.

hey sajee...guess what.....since you are the first person who's gonna read my new blog, tommorrow's entry will be all about you so better read and tag me ya...thanks da....god bless and dream about me...:P(thick skinned eh)